Monday, October 12 (Week 2)
| Cousins |
In the morning, my sore throat felt no worse, but it was not the same for Sandra. She was feeling quite bad and decided to stay in the hotel and sleep some more while the kids and I went to meet the Lorens for breakfast at the Town Diner in East Windsor. Present were (left to right in photo) Marlene, Paul, David, Natalie, Becky, Benjamin, Allie, Philip, Loraine, Gary and Jamie. After a big breakfast and lively conversation, we said our goodbyes and went back to the hotel to get Sandra, who was still feeling poorly. Since we had no more formal events planned for the rest of the trip, we wanted to send David's and my suits back home with Natalie. I had been so disgusted by our over-sized luggage situation, that I decided to send my large suitcase back with her with the suits and a few other things inside. That left only Sandra's large suitcase, but at least there was only one large one to deal with. We had time before we needed to be at the airport to drop Natalie and Benjamin, so we decided to head to Paterson, NJ, where Sandra's grandma Frieda was born and her father had run a textile mill. Traffic was bad and by the time we got there, we didn't have enough time to sightsee. The area was economically depressed, we were the only white-skinned people in sight, and we were not sure if it would be a good idea to walk around anyway. We didn't know it at the time, but we hadn't seen anything yet!
We headed back to Newark to drop Natalie and Benjamin at the airport. Somehow we ended up on the surface streets of Newark. That was an educational experience, particularly for David. Lots of people (mostly men) hanging out on the street. No one working, no one with any place to go or anything to do on a Monday afternoon. We were the only white-skinned people we saw, even in cars. It made us nervous, but no one paid us any mind and my interactions with other drivers were all cordial. We finally made it to the airport and said our goodbyes. We needed to talk to the Enterprise Rental Car people because our electronic toll pass did not seem to be working. I was worried about pulling into the car rental return, because I did not think we would be able to get the car out again, so we decided to find an off-airport Enterprise office. Sandra dialed a location into the GPS and we headed out. Within a short time, we were on the streets of some very bad looking Newark neighborhoods. We decided to bail out and find a freeway so we could jump to light speed and get out of Newark. I figured I'd find another Enterprise office in some safer looking town and hoped that we wouldn't have to take many toll roads en route, or if we did, that there would be some way to resolve the fact that we seemed to be breaking the law at every toll booth.
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| View from the West side of the Hudson River |
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| The living room in Piermont Airbnb |
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| Famous drummer at Thunderdome Studio |
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| Sleeping Beauty |



